I know the title may sound a bit too much like a physics topic, but it is applied to our daily lives. As I have understood human interaction based on observation which I have been doing for quite some years now because of my Opa, I have learnt to read the way people exchange energy, emotions, and feelings. Emotions and feelings are a lot easier to see, while energy is more the feeling one has and cannot be determined by others, but you can notice that just like anything else if you pay enough attention. When we are with people, we constantly exchange messages, whether verbal or non-verbal; this can vary with the people you are with and the ambience you are in. However, I concluded that one could define if a person is an energy vampire, which I mention in one of my previous articles, or is neutral, as I would call them. Neutrals can be balanced with their energy and do not have the intention of sucking up the energy of others for their benefit, and you can rely on having a good time with that person without feeling sucked out of a positive vibe. These two types of people are everywhere and anywhere, and you can either read them from a mile away and decide whether you want to approach them or not; however, here is where judgment and instinct come along. We are on a constant radar of who we allow or don’t allow in our lives. Until you are centred and balanced with yourself, you will not be able to truly know what type of energy you will want in your life, and you will base the liking of a person in a more superficial way. Hence, there is a requirement list that we start to create, and this is what will enable us to open up and concede a person to enter our lives—the sensations in your body, your energy, after seeing a person and interacting with them will determine that. After hanging out with someone - preferably one-on-one -, there can be two outcomes. You can feel like you want to go back and have another conversation with that person or do any other activity. Or you can feel emotionally drained and exhausted as if the other person has sucked out your good energy as if you had to use that energy during the time spent with that person. When we realize how we feel after being with a person, we can learn from it and learn how to cope with that sensation and even start seeing other people or keep on allowing our good energy to be sucked out. Other people might not even know that they are doing that to you, but you will feel it if you start to observe yourself and your reactions to things. It is up to you to decide how you want to live your life and choose the energy transmitters that will enter your life.
Z.
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