Most of the time, we spend our days and nights trying to make others happy. We stop caring too much about what WE want and start to care more about others’ opinions. It is essential to ask ourselves if what we are doing is something that we want or something that people want us to do. But are you having a break from your dreams, because they are not convenient for society? Then, let me tell you something, the fuk’d up truth is that you need to learn to be a bit selfish sometimes.
Let’s make it simple; it doesn’t matter if you are in a group of people who appreciate you or are in a relationship with someone who likes you; if you are not happy there, you should do what is best for YOU. Different situations may not be toxic for everyone, but if those situations are not making you feel comfortable, helping you grow, or just not making you happy… they are toxic for you.
It’s ok! Everyone is different, and emotions are just unpredictable and changing constantly. The important thing is never to stop doing things you want just because you want society to accept who you are. Who cares what others think of you? If you are not happy. Wearing a mask every day, and pretending that your smile is genuine, maybe exhausting than running a whole marathon. So, be you and look out for yourself. Do you know what a waste of time is? To be living a life for others instead of living a life for yourself.
RZ
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